By ZOE CANNON
GRATITUDE FOR THE GIFT OF FAITH
“See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and such we are. For this reason the world does not know us, because it did not know Him” (1 John 3:1).
“We cannot underestimate the power of prayer and the difference it will make in our world.” St. Mother Teresa’s words and actions are a witness of God’s love. Imagine if everyone could see, in real time, how effective his or her prayers were. How often do you tell God how much you love Him? A child taught to know and serve Jesus will feel His love. A busy adult sometimes misses an opportunity to be the hands and feet of Christ in their daily routine. Children observe things around them with fewer concerns and, therefore, see beauty in things adults often miss. The gift of patience with no preconceived notion of time brings wonderment into a child’s life!
When I was in grade school, teachers sometimes commented that I was easily distracted by the busyness of others in the classroom. I am still a casual observer; and when I see a need, I try to help. I attribute this mindset to being the oldest of five. It might have been an undiagnosed condition; I like to think of it as a gift from God. I smile when I witness these traits in little children. They notice things other kids never see — someone sitting alone; a teammate who needs encouragement; or a grandma who needs a hug. Whatever the case, they never miss an opportunity to serve others.
We keep children very busy with extracurricular activities. I often see irritation in parent and child as they rush to be on time for each event. Being involved in organized sports has many benefits. I might add that it can also be a disruption to family life when trying to fulfill all the commitments. I’ve spent many years sitting on bleachers, indoors and outdoors, watching our four children participate in sports. I can honestly say it is challenging to meet the demands. Now, as a grandparent, I can honestly say, it is still challenging!
The season has begun; and in every gym across the country, you hear the sound of bouncing volleyballs and basketballs, and whistles blowing, every evening of the week. I love the concept of team building and the importance of exercise, and I enjoy observing people from the bleachers. We all know the drill, and we have all done it for many years; but there has been a change in expectations. I hope everyone takes time to make sure they are having fun.
Children are blessed to have all these opportunities, but appropriate time management should be a priority. Serious conversations that include the child should take place when the routine begins to get overwhelming. Avoidance may create anxiety, and overlooking truth will not heal negative emotions, which might become habit forming. In the daily scheduling, please do not let anything supersede the commitment to faith and the weekend Mass obligation. We need a relationship with God in our lives, and we need time to tell Him how much we love Him!
We are created as unique and unrepeatable children of God, and each family life is different. God specifically provides gifts and talents needed for His Kingdom. The role of each adult, parent, grandparent, teacher and coach is to help develop full potential in every child. Our prayers through the grace of God have great power. Pray for the protection of all children, and make sure they see God through your actions and words! I love You, Lord! Amen!